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Reality Test

Dr.s Kay & Ray

Psychologists talk RealiTV!
Two licensed psychologists look at what we can learn about culture, societal oppression, social privilege, and ourselves from reality television. Grounded in their sociopolitical positions as relational, anti-racist, feminists, Dr.s Kay & Ray address the power dynamics; social (in)justice; intersecting oppressions, marginalizations, and privileges; and sociohistorical context present in numerous, popular reality television shows, while also celebrating the hope and empowerment that can be found.

At the end of some of our first episodes (3, 4, & 8), and now as separate episodes, “Mental Health Check-Up” segments explore brief mental health interventions, self-help tips, or other concepts from psychology for us all to further noodle on!

We hope to inspire further discussion about psychological and sociocultural aspects of our favorite reality tv shows, offering rough draft thoughts and ideas for us all to continue thinking about. After all, reality television ultimately provides an engaging format for learning about human behavior, mental health, and sociopolitical systems—let’s learn together!

DISCLAIMER: In the context of this podcast, we are not acting as therapists, neither for you nor for the reality castmates we discuss. We are, instead, bringing in our whole human selves, supplemented by mental health and psychology knowledge. We both adhere to social constructionism, such that we believe all knowledge is co-constructed in the context of relationships and we all have our own reality, informed by our own biased memories and subjectivities.

Despite realiTV making us all believe we know the castmates, we clearly do not, and we cannot ethically diagnose them or speak with certainty about their dynamics without conducting formal psychological assessments. Thus, our opinions will be merely (easily erroneous) opinions, informed by our biased perspectives, and while we may discuss diagnoses, we will avoid assigning them to castmates. We've spent years developing our professional roles as psychotherapists, professors, supervisors, and consultants, but we are new to podcasting--as you'll notice! Thank you in advance for your patience and feedback :) This will be an imperfect, but growth-fostering process, and we appreciate your engagement with it and with us! Thanks, y’all.

Award Show & Guest Host | Week of 8/12 | Would you rather? August 20, 2024
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Bachelorette, ep.6 & Big Brother ep.s 1-12 | Sam I am is a Friggin’ ScamAugust 18, 2024
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DOUBLE EPISODE | Week of 8/05 | Bachelorette ep.5 & HOTD ep.8 AND Mini-Award ShowAugust 13, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 7/29 | Permanent Installment for the TESTosterboned award: who might it be?August 06, 2024
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Bachelorette, ep.4 & House of the Dragon ep.s 1-7| "Matt is a Producer Plant" TheoryAugust 05, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 7/22 | “You have to be wary of those ones”July 30, 2024
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Love Island, ep.s 34-36 & Bachelorette, ep.3 | Sam Mean’s “Chaddish moment” & Sam Nice’s Accountability July 29, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 7/15 | Sibling Love… “You made a bit of a dick of yourself” July 23, 2024
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Love Island, ep.s 29-33 & Bachelorette, ep.2 | Marcus is "Incredible"July 22, 2024
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Episode 35: Award Show | Week of 7/08 | "We haven't tested ourselves, yet"July 18, 2024
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Love Island, ep.s 22-28 & Bachelorette, ep.1 | Who is in your top 3 to win Jenn's final rose?July 15, 2024
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Meet the Jenn Menn!July 09, 2024
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Love Island, ep.s 16-23 & Bridgerton, ep.s 4-8 | Psychologist takes on Casa Amor July 08, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 6/24 | “Jackie is the gatekeeper to Margaret’s Arsenal”July 02, 2024
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Love Island US, ep.s 9-15 & Bridgerton, ep.s 1-4 | Tell me you’ve been to therapy without telling me… July 01, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 6/17 | What would make it a 5/5? If he was naked!June 25, 2024
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Perfect Match Finale! & Love Island, ep. 2-8 | Harry: charming, disarming, and alarming!June 24, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 6/10 | We don’t live our real lives because there’s a camera... June 19, 2024
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Perfect Match ep.s1-3 & The Valley Finale | Liquor, Lust, and Love Island June 17, 2024
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MHCU 7: The Women of Summer House & The Central Relational Paradox June 13, 2024
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MHCU 6: Gray Rocking & Love BombingJune 10, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 5/27 | You just said the F word. On national television. To me.June 04, 2024
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VPR Reunion pt.3 & The Valley ep.11 | All of this inappropriate disclosure of others' mental health & sexual activities??June 03, 2024
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Award Show | Week of 5/20 | Who is the most or least grown?May 28, 2024
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VPR Reunion pt.2 & The Valley ep.10 | The cage of patriarchy, indefinitely strengthened by hegemonic masculinity! May 27, 2024
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